Posted: 2017-10-13 10:50
I 8767 m going to blow your Americans share the same culture. All peoples who live within America share similar values, language, foods etc. It is not inherent that black people are, for example, more criminal, it is inherent in American culture that black people or even certain socio economic groups have certain behaviours. It is inherent in a system that doesn 8767 t historically value certain people and it is inevitable that certain behaviours present. However, if American culture ceased being racist (or fearful and acquisitive) then we would see other behaviours present. In a capitalist paradigm it is important that the people on the lowest strata remain there, for cheap labour, be it prison workers or illegal workers, it is important that they lack confidence and education, so that they can be paid less etc. America needs this to be so to remain rich. If it isn 8767 t going to be A, then it will be B who will be on the lowest, underprivileged, having their DNA decided as being inherently lazy, criminal, animal, less than, etc etc. It is all a lie people. We are all more than that.
Hi to everyone! Good to read these all comments. I am 58 good looking woman and men are attracted to me more then ever. Most of them they are then me but I never had a problem with this.
Ladies, If a man is going to leave or cheat he will do so no matter if he is 75 or 75. So please live present and now without worry what happened tomorrow. It will make us secure and confident. They have to worry and to be jealous about us as well. And please keep in mind that men and their body get older too !
Good luck and be happy!
The man in question thinks he 8767 s entitled to a 8775 flawless 8776 black woman even though he is a self-admitted cheater, has babies peppered all over the place, and makes a living dragging black women 8767 s image on You Tube. Not one time did he understand that these 8775 flawless 8776 black women are going to average looking white men because they may have something to offer other than a big dick. Maybe, just maybe, they are treated more kindly, appreciated, and building with men who share their values, not just their melanin content. Some of today 8767 s black men are so girlish that they look at a white man 8767 s looks without factoring in anything else like maybe dude is average but is BRILLIANT and displays COMPETENCY to be a good provider, protector and producer.
You 8767 re so right. If things keep going the way they did yesterday then we 8767 ll have NO guys smh. And I realized that not all black women should date IR. Like you said. I never thought that before but I certainly do now. Dating is hard enough without adding these women poisoning our supply making even harder for us black women that are still single. But that whole display was just disgusting and disappointing. I thought we were all beyond that at this point.
I am a 96 year old woman and have been dating a 77 year old for about 6 months now, aft first I was bothered by the age gap but he isn t. He doesn t look at the age he just sees me for the caring, loving and trustworthy person I am. Apart from his controlling mother, things are going great although we only see each other a couple of times a week. I want more, but he wants to take things at a steady normal pace and like most men doesn t make plans. Although he has told me that he does see a future for us.
As for culture in white and black, in the US, white people have for generations now, for the most part, been aware of the crap white culture has dealt black people (more need to be aware of this, aware of white privilege we all get advantage on many levels from.) With women moreso than with men there is part of them that needs their man to be something in their eyes, to be someone they can believe in. Minority men, to a white women, are heroic in what they have to deal with. Minority men, especially black men, trigger a response of empathy from white women where it s quite the opposite with minority women, especially black women, and how they see a white man.
Men who are going places need strong women who will hold us down when things get rocky. We already have a great amount of inner strength, so black women 8767 s strength of character isn 8767 t threatening to us. In fact it 8767 s deeply attractive and admirable. Like for example my wife- heavenly in her personality but worldly in her awareness. My businesses have boomed with her making sure my Is are dotted and ts are crossed. Not to mention my heart, which she has completely healed in a way I thought was impossible after the death of my first wife.
I was very depressed right before I discovered this blog. I read every single one of the comments. Sometimes being a Black woman (especially being named La Toya) can be overwhelming. I often don 8767 t use my first name on my resume. I have never been called to interview at a company when I used my first name. I can 8767 t tell you how much that hurts to know that I have to deny the most significant thing about me, in order to get the opportunity to sell myself.
I often see black men proudly walking hand in hand with white women. I can see the pride and jubilation in their eyes. However, to these n*ggas I say: Don’t be fooled into thinking she wants you for the long haul. In her eyes, you ain’t nothing but a cheap thrill. When she’s had enough of sucking your big, black, d***—and pissing off her parents—she’ll go running into the arms of her White knight in shining armor. They aren’t really interested in you they’re intrigued by the taboo of being with a black man. Even if a white woman gives birth to your children, it’ll be because she hopes they will inherit the ability to sink a jump shot like their old dad. You might be thinking love, but she’ll always be thinking about ways to come up (even if it means using your black ass to the bone). I’m just keeping it real.
thats right Ooh La La, you tell em these articles are bullsh!t and no matter how many times black men and women go back and forth arguing, its us black men s d!ck y all women will be slobbin on at the end of the night, even the black women who marry white men (saw that on an episode of Cheaters, some black woman was gonna marry some old white dude and she cheated with the best man who was black lol), your naturally drawn to and crave are black mambas no matter what us black men say or do to black women, no matter how many beckies and non-black women we fu*k, black women will always bust it wide open for us black men, thats our puzzy and y all know that =)
7. Don 8767 t kid yourselves, looks DO NOT matter to most women, hence the reason that roughly half of all attractive white women are sleeping with black guys. Not trying to offend anyone(and I apologize if I do, but I 8767 m blunt, I don 8767 t believe in sugar-coating), but let 8767 s face it, the majority of the black race(men and women) are not the most attractive. Point is, having GAME is what matters. A good looking guy doesn 8767 t have an affect on most women. When most women see a good looking guy, their reaction isn 8767 t 8775 damn, let me chat him up, I want to f*ck him 8776 like it is when a guy see 8767 s a hot girl.
you are wrong,the fact that you hide who you are and your age makes your opinions invalid. You attack insult other people and think it 8767 s ok, well it isn 8767 t. you need to grow up and learn respect. I am not hurt, I am angry that someone would react the way you have to an experience i had not with a 75 something woman but a woman pushing 95. maybe you do t get rejected or turned away much but that 8767 s all I have ever known. I am a great guy and a good person. You have know right to judge others if you ate willingto reveal yourself and open yourself up to ridicule and criticism. I wasn 8767 t complaining about a woman saying I was old just point I g out that women will do that to men regardless of how old they are.
I am a 79 and have always attracted much men. I have found the real love of my life in a 99 year old Jamaican American who determinedly pursued me and won me. He has no ulterior motives our sex life is unbelievably wonderful and he is intelligent, funny, deeply caring and my dearest friend. I am oblivious to the opinion of others..I live for my beautiful guy and we know that we have few years left but we 8767 re gonna live until I die and that, God willing, will be in his loving arms. Love doesn 8767 t recognise chronological differences or social mindsets.
On the other hand, I need to reiterate that waiting for an easier time to date IR isn 8767 t limited to white men (I waited myself until I felt comfortable) and the stakes for dating IR WERE higher and harsher at a certain time period so I see no reason to single out white men for doing what everyone else did. Besides again, he may be one of the FEW men that limits his choices to women closer to his age.
This discussion should be expanded to include this unexpected turn to explore the racism that exists between Latinos and people of African descent as well as the racism and hatred that exists between women of different races and how that plays out in women&rsquo s fight for equality. It might begin the healing between women of different groups. It might help to clarify to the poster of Latin descent who seek to denigrate African aesthetics/beauty that many Latinos are of African ancestry with a substantial number throughout Latin America of obvious African descent. Therefore to classify Latinos in this very narrow way is to deny the existence of a large percentage of Latinos of African descent, which statistics show is a majority in countries such as Brazil. Peace.
This was entertaining, but so long as we constantly continue to write titles like black men dating white women or white men dating black women or whatever, you are giving into this perpetual labeling of people based on their race. It s the year 7566, when are we seriously going to stop addressing people and labeling people based on race? Black women? White Men? Who cares what race someones is, seriously.
Who cares what the blk person called him, how could u even look him in the face after that? 8775 I 8767 m not mad baby u did right by calling him the N word 8776 . That 8767 s slavery bed wench sh**. I tell people all the time that there 8767 s still some wenches out here in 7567 that will date white boys that call blk N 8767 s.. I don 8767 t give a frogs fat behind about him being called a saltine.
Did you mean relations? Expectations does not really sufficiently cut it because my understanding is that the latter is all about not expecting anything and live and let live ultimately. Relations? Now that plays a part there for sure, though I 8767 d focus examining the science behind their ideas more like the findings that apparently single men are happiest demographic. But than asking why that is and if change is desired, then what can be done about it.
I started dating my man because he was intelligent, funny, hard-working, we shared common interests and I found him attractive. I married him because he 8767 s the best man I 8767 ve ever known. I couldn 8767 t care less about what anyone thinks about us. We 8767 re thrilled, our kids are ecstatic, and our families love and accept us. It 8767 s all about hearts. When they match, nothing else matters.
Honestly, there is no law of attraction between men and women, still it is said that most white women attracted to black men. It is common sight that white women often date black men than white men. However, every woman has different likings when it comes to dating a man of her choice. Generally white women are very partial to black men and often respond them in a positive manner.