Posted: 2017-10-29 10:47
I guess I 8767 m racist in my soul, I don 8767 t know for sure. I do know this much, some of my best friends are black, I get along very well with everybody, and I enjoy seeing any color of people succeed in life. But when it comes to whites dating/marrying blacks, I cringe. I truly believe in equal in all aspects of life except for that particular situation. I 8767 ve always felt this way and can 8767 t seem to overcome it. Just being brutally truthful so let the name calling begin.
8775 I was by a gang of black men 8776 OH boo freakidy whoo! This isn 8767 t about you you pompous twat. What they did over there to you doesn 8767 t mean everyone of that particular race will do it. Sorry to break it to you but people doesn 8767 t equate to being African. All of you keep refering to black people as African American or African and telling them to go back to Africa. That 8767 s like telling a Russian to go back to 8775 Nahzi Germany 8776 . Shut up. You 8767 re looking for pity and there is none here for you.
I can 8767 t comment a lot, since I agree with a lot, including that most women in Japan are sadly only looking for a guy that can walk and provide for them and the family that they want to make. Those women don 8767 t seem to care at all for what 8767 s more important, which is being personally successful, and finding a partner who is your best friend. I can 8767 t imagine wanting to live with someone who wasn 8767 t my favorite person in the world, whom I didn 8767 t want to spend every second with and want to improve myself for. :/ Again, it 8767 s a generalization, and I don 8767 t like that attitude which is why all of the girls that I got along well with in Japan weren 8767 t like that at all.
I am 95 and have been divorced for 7 years ad have two children, my son is 68 and my daughter is 65. I have tried onling dating, etc. I find men my own age boring. No sense of adventure no passion. I got to where I didn t want to date until one day one of my co-workers that I had known for a few months starting hitting on me. I did not take him seriously due to the fact that he is 76. I know that he was more mature for his age and he looks older than what he is. I decided after long and careful consideration to take that step. I am so happy that I did. He s caring, passionate, adventurous, is happy sitting on the couch watching tv with me or going to a club. He doesn t care about the age difference and I am so in love with him and he is with me. I don t look at the future 65 years or longer down the road. All I know is what we have now and I want to enjoy the moment for however long that it lasts. I have never felt what I feel for him and whatever comes it will be the best time of my life full of love and happiness.
Now guys for the most part my brethren are the same except where as the women imply theyre single, you retards take off your wedding rings and replace them with credit cards, because all your looking for is a piece if strange and an ego boost cause you knocked up your ol'ladies and no one told you after she pops out a few lil ones her tits are gonna sag and her ass is gonna get wider than broad st, so you think your entitled to go out and chase strange until you get caught, then you whine like the bitches you are when you do , and dont wanna give up the old and busted til you have the new hotness commited , basically just like all the women do.
I believe that is where the number issue comes into to play, I personally love kids and have no problem dating women that have them within reason. Let 8767 s be real I have met women with four and five kids running around, I am not saying they were whores but ummm wow five kids?!!?! I really think it comes down to how the woman manages the situation, how she presents the guy she is dating to her kids and when have a lot to do with how things go. Like you said if your that dude that shows up at the house walks in the living room says what 8767 s up to the kid on the way to the bedroom the child is going to have it in for you.
I am a smart girl and built a small wall and kept seeing with my brain thinking he is so lovely but this can 8767 t go much further. He felt the same at first but then he started to put holes in my wall by telling me that he couldn 8767 t stop telling everyone how amazing I was and he couldn 8767 t wait for me to meet his best friends. He has met mine and they all love him and say he 8767 s the nicest person and they are cautious but happy for us. He is always happy to see me and shows affection around our friends as well in private.
You talk about this woman not giving her dad enough thought for why he feels this way. But you turn around and decide, just like this woman 8767 s father that, somehow you 8767 re feelings and stereotypes trump any actual person your child is involved with. Your daughter probably lied to you before she started dating this man, and she probably lied about that because she knows that you are a 655% racist and it 8767 s not because you were It 8767 s because you were already racist and this horrible event very loosely ties into what you already believe. Your daughter, or Aaron, could be the nicest, most polite, human beings, but you have no respect for black people don 8767 t see black people as being as human as you see yourself.
Nail very much hit on the head. Online dating for girls that are decent (and offline for that matter) requires work and a combination of common sense, good judgement and patience. Same thing for decent guys going online - it requires work and there are guides out there that go a bit further than the generic "read her profile" advice given here if guys looked hard enough for them and that easily help them stand out.
Check his credentials: If you have a toddler or baby and the guy is okay with dating you, then this next step is important. You may need to run some sort of background check or something to know what kind of temperament the guy has. A suave, zen-like guy who can hold in his inner lion is great but if you have a temper tantrum throwing lunatic around your baby, you need to drop him like a bad habit.
The female you used was a doughy, 75 year old Asian/Hispanic chick in Southern California at that? I'm not surprised at your results. The men weren't feisty with your profile because it's not what they are lusting after. Men are only angry at profiles of the trophy girls who respond with iciness, insults or silence. She must be thin, usually blonde with light eyes, primarily Caucasian. Use that profile pic and you'll see the firestorm of interest. With the chick you used the men will only be nice because they're not ego invested in her at all. Also you didn't turn any of the men down to get a response. So you didn't give them a reason to invest in you. Just wait until you turn guys down as a blonde. That's when you better put up your photon force fields.
For guys who are genuine and respond to womens' profiles (not just their pictures) it would be nice to receive a reply such as, "Not feeling chemistry, but thanks for the message." I acknowledge the frustration and fear of being harassed by unwanted sexual advances. The frustration of men comes from being earnest about responding thoughtfully and then getting no reply whatsoever. These men don't reply back nastily, but just accept that there won't be a reply. But it would be nice to get a reply either way.
In the end, Japanese women aren’t simple and gullible, although they’re good at pretending to be. You really shouldn’t mess with ladies who are better than you at math, you know. And like women anywhere, they can be controlling, angry, and vindictive if you screw up. Do not screw up. Trust me on this. They want a house, kids, and a husband who brings home a paycheck. That’s the game they’re playing, and this is their home turf.
Really? Where is your proof of this? It sure isn 8767 t in the bible. There is plenty of evidence, empirical and statistical, that this is NOT the case. We don 8767 t even have to be talking about races either. Are you quoting it because it 8767 s in the Declaration of Independence? That refers to rights of people, and interestingly it says 8775 Men 8776 not 8775 People 8776 , so the famous document from where your stance most likely originates contradicts you.
I was doing a search and really trying to get some advice or better yet read about other older women dating men and found this site. There is a ton of information on here and makes me feel a little bit more confident that I am NOT crazy for being attracted to a man. My situation is still in its crush stage. I am an african amercian woman who has been stung by the love bug of an caucasian male who is in his mid twenties. It is at work and which makes this situation a bit difficult for me to even pursue. I like to do my 8 hours and get out of the workplace if you know what I mean. I think one time he caught me staring at him but I was so taken by his appearance. At times I feel silly, being 86 looking at this kid and wonder if he even knows how old I am. But truth be told, we don t even know each other and I am sure I am probably the last thing on his mind. But I do think that he notices me noticing him type deal. I have not told one soul that I like this gentleman because I m a bit shy. And I would be hurt if he said that he was not into black women.
Thanks for apologizing for your writing skills as they really are horrendous (borderline infantile). I accept your apology. That being said, the content should embarrass you. Stop talking about how great you are and all the sacrifices you 8767 ve made. Youre not fooling anybody with that whoa is me garbage. And then you have the audacity to essentially assert this woman should be on her hands and knees because , in your world, a single mother with three kids would be lucky to grab a guy like you (who could drop her and all her baggage and be free, am Iright playa?!) Again , you need to take some damn responsibility for your actions. Noone is holding a gun to your head. Do things for others because you want to not because you think you 8767 ll be owed something in return or worse , you think your some unbelievable philanthropist. Grow up
I've been currently using dating sites again and right now its a living hell for me. I agree with the guy below that being alone (for the past decade for me) has been quite maddening. I'm a 89 year old male that lives alone in a 7 bedroom apartment, and I've never had kids. Getting severe bouts of depression every once in while and some very emotionally crushing anguish about what could have been.
Stories about the number of Black women who are single have made headlines for years, and many of us are tired of hearing them. But the reality often hits home during the holidays, when discussing your love life becomes an appetizer at meals with the family. What can be even more disheartening than seeing your beautiful, professional, well-educated sisterfriend still unattached is seeing a successful Black man settle down with someone of another ethnic group. The immediate thought for many is, With all the gorgeous, accomplished Black women available, why didn't he choose one of us? So it's no wonder we're thrilled for Black women who have found love—no matter the ethnicity of their partner. Though Black men are still twice as likely as Black women to date outside their race, it seems more and more of us are becoming open to dating beyond the color line.
On 7 December 7559, nationally syndicated radio host Russ Parr passed along to his web site visitors the Serena Williams 8775 interview. 8776 (We 8767 re told he also read the piece on air and later in the show had Ms. Williams 8767 publicist on to refute it, but we can 8767 t confirm that as we weren 8767 t tuned in.) The next day he added to the previous offering by posting the statement from Serena Williams 8767 publicist.
hi I m 66 and I have 7 options my teacher is down right amazing and we ve flirted a lot and I know she likes me and I like her back I don t want anyone to find out. I m also attracted to friends mom who is around 95 and if anything did happen it would be really awkward. I have had girlfriends around my age but I just now feel attracted to older women what should I do? Thanks and please reply!