Posted: 2017-11-15 00:35
It 8767 s been three months and I still feel like I need him, we are still seeing each other exclusively but he wont call us a couple. I am slowly starting to piece my life back together and I want to let any girl in the same situation or before they even get to this point know that it is so important to have 8766 your 8767 life first! Go to work, go on holidays, have girls nights, chase your dreams and never ever give up, and if he doesnt appreciate you for that he is not worth keeping. I know the day (which is not to far away) that I can confidently say I don 8767 t need a man, will be the day he will take me back!
Cool the fact that you had that experience both on the receiving end and on the acting end is a very valuable experience. Because you understand how it feels when someone is acting needy towards you.
It probably isn 8767 t too late (unless you did something really crazy that you didn 8767 t mention here )
If you are not needy and any time he sees you or is thinking of you, he feels good (or better yet, feels like he wants more of you), then you 8767 ll be all set.
Being that you came in confrontational, I 8767 m happy to have given you a non-sugarcoated, blunt response. That said, I do wish you the best of luck and, most importantly, I hope you adopt a mindset where you don 8767 t blame the other person for not fulfilling your wants and instead, choose a good match and focus on giving freely to him if he gives back in the way you like, great, stay if he doesn 8767 t, leave. Easy and no hard feelings.
Am married for the last 5months and I don 8767 t love my husband .I have a pregnancy of 6& 6/7month I really don 8767 t feel happy with him I have doubted him because he is always in need of sex whenever I go home he always comes for me and trying to tell me how he can 8767 t dare stay without me I always ask him is it the reason you usually demand for sex so u can 8767 t be able to stay without me because you need me for sex he always gets angry if I don 8767 t allow him enjoy sex with me... am now confused how to go about with this matter please advice me I feel out of words oooopps I DON 8767 T KNOW
And yet another short list of things that I’m not really fond of:
Cars (can’t tell why I put this one first )
Self-centered people (but, hey Have you ever heard anybody saying “yes, yes, I am definitely self-centered.” So this one doesn’t really count!!)
TV (even if I like one or two shows and some movies)
Superficial people (but same problem as #7 )
Don 8767 t confuse neediness with situations where you should rightfully be angry. If he promised to meet you somewhere at a specific time and then didn 8767 t, that 8767 s definitely a situation where you should be angry. Guys should always keep their promises if a guy isn 8767 t sure that he can keep his promise, he should promise it in the first place! Moreover, he shouldn 8767 t leave you hanging without a heads-up if he thinks he 8767 s going to be late after setting a time.
I loooove to sing Luther Vandross songs. Also, I would love to be blessed with the lady of my life. Want to know more??? Well, that can 8767 t happen unless you contact me. Hate playing games??!! Hate being told lies??!! Well, come on I 8767 M YOUR MAN!!!YOU NEED THIS in your life!!! PEACE & BLESSINGS!!! You still haven’t messaged me yet??!! LET 8767 S GO CHOP, CHOP!!!! (smile) MAY GOD BLESS YOU INDEED!! I receive messages frequently but I do respond quickly. XOXOXOXO applause:
I met a guy online and we only went on two dates so far. The first date he claimed he didn 8767 t have money, so i paid and the meal wasn 8767 t cheap, it was at an expensive restaurant. We met in the city that day. The second date I went by Metro north train to visit him upstate. I don 8767 t have a vehicle, but he does. He was supposed to see me in Queens and he had a death in his family,so he had to go to Baltimore for the funeral. I have not seen him in 8 months. He just texts me everyday. He doesn 8767 t seem to interested in making an effort to see me, so should I end the communication with him.
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I 8767 ve already had a little more success. Not really any responses but much more interest. Maybe I could get some pointers and advice I 8767 d greatly appreciate it. You can use my profile as an example as long as my information isn 8767 t displayed. Again thank you for your advice. Online dating is very intimidating but a useful tool especially when someone like myself find it difficult to say these things in person but much easier and more relaxing with a little buffer. Much appreciated!! Your hard work surely has paid off.
This guy is so funny he’s irresistible. Right from the get-go his profile starts off with a catchy line that is knee jerking funny and it doesn’t come off as too cliché or to “out there”. His profile is so humorous I don’t really care what he looks like—I want to get to know him, find out where he gets his outrageous sense of humor. He represents the kind of guy that will keep me in stitches and feeling good.
8. I would rather be a rock star then a movie star. My personal theory on music, is that it is just pure, emotional communication, have you ever listened to a song in another language but still understood on an emotional level, what the song was trying to express? Music can bring emotions out in us and bring us back to emotions that we felt in the past it 8767 s a talent that I wish I had, and emotions are really the most addictive chemicals.
Good points, Reese! I fell into the same trap, and it 8767 s hard to see you are doing it, while you are doing it. It makes you wish you could have realized what you were doing before it was too late. Maybe it won 8767 t be in your case, but I think it is in mine. But feeling like you need someone like that and then having them ends things with you is a scary feeling because I am feeling it right now! It makes me realize I really need to get my life in check and never invest so much into another person that I would be in such a painful state like I 8767 m in now when/if things end. My ex told me he was so attracted to me in the beginning because I was so confident and independent. It 8767 s a shame that I lost that when I begin to put too much of my focus on him. At least I learned from it, and will know for the next guy hopefully! Good luck to you!
I agree with this but the thing is how can you show a guy you appreciate all the things he does for you without seeming needy? that 8767 s the thing I 8767 m stuck on, as just saying that you appreciate it doesn 8767 t seem enough while to them it seems needy. it 8767 s also the little things guys do, like the cute things they say, not just necessarily them buying things and taking you out for lunch, but as soon as a girl tries to do this back to show her appreciation a man doesn 8767 t like it. It comes of to them as neediness or clingyness. but if we do nothing then thy are still mad. please someone explain that one.
Great post however I 8767 m shocked the search engine took me here. So do you have the same educated information for when a woman is not needy and the male party gets irritated that you don 8767 t initiate a call out to the prolonged periods of not speaking. If I 8767 m told that they want to spend the day with me and will text me later I 8767 m not going to text nor call them because they specifically told me they would. Then to text me at 65 at night ready to come over yes my answer is no. Then ask if I 8767 m mad really no I 8767 m not but really come on. And heaven forbid if they text you and you don 8767 t respond on there time. Honestly, this text more than talk sucks. Unless they respond in all caps how do you know true emotions and intent. Maybe I 8767 m finding the opposite is true because I 8767 m not needy? I can 8767 t nor would I want to control nor think anyone should act or behave how I think they should. And honestly if you do then just walk or run because you can only change yourself and accept or walk away from others. We all need right? I do thank you for the information knowledge is key but something positive would be fantastic!!!
Hi Eric, I really wish I had read this article over a year ago. My fiance just broke up with me because for the last year, I have been pressuring and being needy to him, while being completely oblivious I was even doing it. He wouldn 8767 t talk to me about my actions until the break up, but he also mentioned how I acted I couldn 8767 t careless about the house and just gave up. The house thing I completely disagree with, but after thinking about my actions and going through text messages, I am really wanting to bang my head on the wall for being so oblivious of my behavior and what I was doing to him. Is there any way I can show him how sorry I really am and how I am aware of my actions now and how i would like to show him i am working on it without using words or pressuring him? He will not talk to me now unless it is absolutely necessary. I am living with a mutual friend of ours right now, so that kinda helps with the connection.
So can I ask is it neediness if you been dating a guy 89 months and you have a serious surgery limiting your mobility. Is it needy to ask for help? How about if they dodge yu or if they don 8767 t even cal to see if your ok or if anyone is taking care of you. Does it occur to men at all that you might be all she has to maybe take her to the hospital or stay with her or help her to the bathroom. Are men so cold as stone that they just don 8767 t help anymore or is this a reason to drop them. When is too busy for you just to little! Explain the mans view to me. Don 8767 t you think if you can 8767 t cone hel at least get flowers?
Sounds like he is putting HER feelings b9 URS!! Sounds like he 8767 s lying to you & I think u might be truly angry with HIM? Idk I 8767 m no pro (lol) but sounds like it 8767 s time to walk away from a man that u can 8767 t trust, and is putting another woman BEFORE U!!!! I 8767 m so sorry! I do pray u can work it out with him! But it 8767 s him, not her (unfortunately) whose behavior is in acceptable!!
This is a great article and puts things into perspective and I can see that whereas I am not needy in terms of my actions, don 8767 t text or call repeatedly or get upset if time passes that he doesn 8767 t respond, not inviting the man out too early on, not asking why questions, not making future plans, but still showing interest well, I still feel that either I met the most commitment phobic man of all times, I might just appear needy, or he is the wrong guy. I am trying to work on this because it probably won 8767 t work out with this guy but I would like to uncover this for the next guy.
Honey move on. He is showing you that by not contacting you that he isn 8767 t ready to be tied down. As a woman, I do admit that when a guy texts me too much especially about senseless things, I get annoyed and lose interest. It looks like he has lost interest in you. Stop fretting about him not talking to you. Whatever you do, do NOT text him or contact him. If he is interested, he will contact you. He is at Mardis Gras I presume. Although that is a 79 hour party, if he thought about you, he would contact you. Please stop worrying about him, as he isn 8767 t worth it. Watch 8775 he 8767 s just not that into you 8776 . It will make it clear. Work on yourself, and let the man chase you from the beginning. You have to let them they love the challenge. I 8767 m not saying not to text first, but let them make the moves most of the time. You are a prize worth catching. You are very and you will find someone much better that treats you like the jewel you are!!!