Posted: 2017-09-25 07:48
Quotes from famous people that you admire, agree with or want to emulate are quite popular in tag lines, as are truisms and lines from famous movies or songs. The problem with using any of these kinds of pieces as your tag line is that others are probably thinking the same thing. Peruse a couple of dating sites and you ll quickly see what I mean: 89 I m the one your mother warned you about, 89 is still a favorite after more than a decade of use, and many online daters steer clear of anyone using this tag line because of it.
If only so many women were approachable.. Women act aloof in public. The only place they don 8767 t are social environments where they give off negative vibes unless the 8775 right 8776 one ask them to dance or join them in a drink. This is why PUA has picked up and taken off, because it uses a woman 8767 s instincts against them. As Adam Corolla has said (not like I agree with him very much) is that you would think women would grow out of liking artsy, car-dude, douche bag, dangerous guy by their mid 75 8767 s but it continues deep into their 85 8767 s!
Men are told its evil to consider a woman by her looks only. Ummm its worked that way for a very long time. This is why women are upset and often depressed as they get into their 95 8767 s. The campaign to make women in their 85 8767 s and 95 8767 s more viable to men of all ages started in the 6995 8767 s.
Men don 8767 t care about bad profiles if the woman is attractive, guess what? = Pump And Dump
But now: Here ye, Here ye Knights in Shining Armor, there is something I must inform you about this profile it is off due to a few things. Did you figure out what that might be? Don 8767 t worry, 8775 Attraction Killer 8776 Red Flag #7 is tough to spot , especially when we 8767 re doing it in our own online dating approach. Take the quiz for instant enlightenment!
The question of Do Women Still Get Attention in Online Dating Even If Their Profiles Suck?
The answer as we all know is,of course they is planet earth and men will respond to any and all profiles because it takes very little time & of these men by the way would never approach % of these women in public for a myriad of reasons.
The better question may be. 8775 how come women who 8767 s profiles suck,won 8767 t respond to most men even those with high quality pics and a high quality interestingly unique profile? 8776
Sadly in the online world, both sexes judge whether a profile 8775 sucks 8776 or is 8775 quality 8776 by 98% photos & 7% rest of profile. Of course for men,we have to have not only good photo 8767 s (be an 8,9,or65)but we have to be educated,have a good job title/income, and of course be TALL lol Women?? You just have to have the PHOTOS and the responses roll in and always will. It will always be about 8775 options 8776 , 8776 supply & demand 8776 .
If you 8767 d like to know more S ay 8775 hi 8776 . I didn 8767 t reve A l a lot about my S elf for you to read on purpose. Rather we chat, talk, engage in conversation to get to know each other instead of us reading through a long page in this section about each other. Also, just because someone look S like a good match “on paper”, doesn 8767 t necessaril Y translate in reality.
But not only does your handle need to be unique, it also needs to be personal, interesting and somehow indicative of who you are, without being off putting, too long or a challenge to pronounce. Although pronouncing your handle may seem counterintuitive, (this is online dating after all!) it will come in handy once you start meeting people. Because some people use only their handles as a personal identifier for some time, many online daters will come to use your handle as your 89 name 89 , and may even greet you by your handle upon meeting face to face.
Remember - you have already started your profile by saying who you are and what you''re into - if someone is still reading, they''re already intrigued by you and what you care about. If you really want to meet someone who loves sailing because sailing is your passion, that person who also loves sailing is already hooked as soon as they read that sailing is your passion! If they hate sailing, hate the water and hate sailors, they''re already gone.
If you 8767 re here because I sent you a message then..Congratulations! You 8767 ve been selected! Now continue reading since I know I only have another 5 seconds to hold your attention. I 8767 m extremely wealthy, I own a mansion up on a cliff that over looks the Pacific Ocean on the West Coast of California that has the most incredible sunset you 8767 d ever lay eyes !! Come on now,You don 8767 t wanna hear what I have or don 8767 t have!
I was about to comment on Not Jerry 8767 s post above, and I see he 8767 s posted in again. There are some good ideas in both posts the profile strategy he 8767 s using sounds similar to what I 8767 ve been experimenting with recently, and my results so far seem promising as well. It DOES take confidence and a certain attitude to take that approach, since both the length and the content fly in the face of a lot of conventional wisdom.
Next, invite the person reading the profile to contact you, so they can join you in doing something you ve just intimated you are interested in or passionate about. Folks new to town can easily ask for tour guides to show them around, and people more familiar with the area can suggest a date activity. Bolder singles with confidence in their writing abilities can even go so far as to write their Mr. or Mrs. Right (or Right Now) into their short story, detailing what they d like in a partner or date through their own fictitious observations.
Oh, if only the guys would read my profile more often. About 98% of the time, they haven 8767 t even bothered. They 8767 ve seen the photo and sent their instant flirt. It 8767 s incredibly annoying to the point where if someone hasn 8767 t at least appeared to have taken a moment to read my profile, I 8767 m highly inclined to not respond. But I always send the polite 8775 no thanks. 8776
Hey Nancy It 8767 s funny because while these profiles are good, they have been copied THOUSANDS of times. I single handedly made the 8775 Anchorman 8776 the most quoted movie of all time on okCupid because so many guys copied the #7 profile with the 8775 Anchorman 8776 quote in it. If you search okCupid you 8767 ll see thousands of guys that just copied these profiles word for word and they wonder why they don 8767 t work. lol
I 8767 m not sure indifference is the right word maybe pragmatic is more it. I don 8767 t want to be chained to a computer waiting for contact on a dating site. I know what I can control with regard to a better on-line dating experience (which I have done), and what I can 8767 t. I believe if a man is interested and my physicality doesn 8767 t bother him (and I 8767 m not even fat as in 8775 DAYUM 8776 ala Gabriel Iglasias) I respond, am witty and charming, etc. I 8767 ve done what I can do. The rest of it I can 8767 t get emotionally involved in.
The only reasons i 8767 d heard for having recon profiles before was what i mentioned in my post above or to 8766 check up 8767 on someone- like if you wrote a girl but she ignored you, 8766 testing 8767 her to see if she 8767 d write back to your recon profile. Or if a girl told you she met someone else, 8766 testing 8767 her to see if she 8767 d answer your recon profile. Those are the things I don 8767 t get.
Yet some women really get indignant – they poured their heart out in their profile, put a ton of effort into saying what they really feel. And when I take a look at it, 9 times out of 65, she did just that. Except Nancy pouring her heart out as a 95-year-old divorcee in Seattle sounds just like April pouring her heart out as a 85-year-old single girl in New York. The lists of adjectives, the lists of hobbies, the lists of bands and countries and books and TV shows, the clichés, the personal philosophy about life and love and honesty and trust. You’ve seen it before. It’s perfectly articulate, perfectly earnest, and perfectly generic because most woman arrive at the same conclusions.
A profile for me? You mean upfront, honest, and direct about what I am and what I want? This would be easy except that I actually do self-identify with such 8775 cliches 8776 as 8775 a gentleman and scholar 8776 and 8775 hopeless romantic 8776 I, as an individual, have the dubious pleasure of making my way through life as a genuinely nice guy with an active intellect, old-school manners, and a love for the old romances. I feel like I 8767 m the 8775 Where 8767 s Waldo 8776 of romance, the guy lost in the crowd, Eminem puttin 8767 out to all his imitators that they best sit down. What 8767 s it take to stand out when all the crowd is tryin 8767 look like me, sound like me, and they don 8767 t get that it 8767 ll get them blown off like me?
Nothing matters.. that 8767 s the point. It 8767 s all part of the fun of the game. She doesn 8767 t 8775 send 8776 the recon 65 more pics. She adds them to her profile for all of us to see & judge. So in essence I 8767 m helping everyone by making these women improve or in some cases make 8775 worse 8776 their 8767 ve all seen people who add photo 8767 s and lower their value because the 8775 new 8776 pics are recent lol Then you go 8775 Ohhh,that 8767 s what they look like NOW 8776 .LOL I 8767 ve seen it go work both ways.
So, honestly, this guy pisses me off. I wan to slug him for being yet another example of 8775 act like a jerk = get girls 8776 . I don 8767 t see anything honest, clear, or direct about that profile. I don 8767 t care for shock jock tactics. It 8767 s almost conformist how every attempt to prove 8775 I don 8767 t care what other people think 8776 all look the same. So I guess I don 8767 t 8775 get 8776 the joke. I 8767 m too serious.
Living it actually, I guess this question is supposed to mean 8775 What ambitions you have? I don 8767 t know why they just don 8767 t come right out and say it rather than being general or beating around the bush. I like comics and stuff, and I want to self publish this murder thriller graphic novel I have in the back of my head. I already have my 8775 career 8776 So it 8767 s not like I 8767 m going to spice this up and say 8775 I 8767 m going for my In Rocket Science!!! 8776 just to try and impress people on here, But I 8767 m not fake, I 8767 m real. I don 8767 t exaggerate, especially on my OKCupid dating profie.
I had a lengthy discussion with my guy friend about this just this afternoon. I felt like he couldn 8767 t understand my experience. I don 8767 t know if this is because of difference in gender or if I 8767 m applying too much logic or what. I sent him the link to this blog because he thinks I 8767 m not trying hard enough. I made an effort to write a witty, interesting, and unique essay, and I even put up a full length picture with my others as I will not hide my body type. I had to explain to him that I 8767 m out there but I can only do so much. Men are looks-driven creatures and I have no power to make that be different. He says I have to keep myself out there, which I do. I also had to explain to him that knowing it is what it is, if I spend most of my time being not really caring whether I 8767 m getting dates or not is just how I think a lot people roll. We have lives. We go to work, pay our bills, raise our kids, hang out with our families and friends.