Posted: 2017-11-14 22:57
No but saying as polite as I m going to get implies that others are getting politer responses. Eliza was trying to explain to you that this isn t something special for you, there aren t all these guys out there getting kind rejections from women and you are not. Rather not responding is a coping mechanism women choose to do because they were burned in the past. Women have learned that if they respond to a man with a rejection, even a polite one, that the men will not normally say, Okay cool, good luck! but will instead either insult them Well I didn t want you anyway fatty or keep pushing Come on, you know you want to!
It 8767 s also important to wear clothes that fit and this means clothes that are cut close to your body. Straight-leg jeans, slim-fitting tees, fitted dress shirts these are all your friends when it comes to creating the illusion of height. Baggy clothing is clothing that hangs off of you, creating the impression that it 8767 s too large. The last thing you want is the 8775 kid wearing Daddy 8767 s clothing 8776 look which also makes you look shorter. Clothes that are cut close create a smother, sleeker silhouette which minimizes the visual cues that subtly imply a lack of stature. Yes, you may love your relaxed fit jeans but trust me: they 8767 re doing you no favors.
Compromise of course there is a middle ground. However most women will simply dump the man before they find it and end up being alone again. The problem with narcissism is there is little to no room for compromise “It’s either my way or get out.” For women reading this, I would also like to highlight that they can only reproduce between the ages 68 -85 without increasing their risk of complications. Men however can reproduce into their 65s. On top of that men only need to exert 85% of their labour to live comfortable lives. The rest is pure profit. This means that biologically women are not in a good position to be exhibiting narcissistic behaviour if they want to have kids. On a side note: Men accumulate wealth, prestige and enhance their masculine features over time thereby gaining attraction.
I have gone with married woman when I was One of my married girlfriends quit her husband and married me. I was then married to a woman with a history of quitting a husband for a boyfriend. It never occurred to me that once we were married I would no longer be a boyfriend, but now I was her husband. It didn t take her long to trade me in on a newer model. That was my last marriage. Now I only go with unattached, unmarried trustworthy ladies.
I m 75 years older. And though the love is true, this is hard going for me, because he won t even take a gift! I have more money (of course, I ve hat 75 more years to work on that) but he doesn t feel like a man unless he can keep up. By the way I a 59. He s 79. I look very which helps I guess, but I still have sore wrists and knees and I don t feel good revealing that to him.
I am an attractive 98 year old women dating the nicest 87 year old guy. We met at a party and he started to ask me out right away, I told him my age and he quickly responded that his last girlfriend was 96 and I seemed in many ways. We spent the next 65 hours in conversation (no one ever holds my interest for very long) and had a great time. We exchange numbers but I never planned for it to go past that point. Yes he called, yes I turned him down and yes he called again. We did get together after all and to both our delite we found we had most everything in common. We have been seeing each other for a little over 7 months.
That does make sense. Thank you. Not sure I can pull it off as it may fundamentally go against my personality but interesting nonetheless. I have what I think of as a date this week and I m genuinely wondering whether going in as myself or doing something different is the way to go. I d normally be self depreciating and introspective. I know people can t really tell me what I should do. Just looking for thoughts.
Many issues here:
He doesnt know my age but does know that I am very successful.
He is an athlete and is being pursued by many females.
I am developing very very big feelings for him and it seems as though he is also starting to as well.
I eventually do want to settle down with a man and have a family.
Should I RUN not walk from this fatal attraction!
Is it possible it could go anywhere?
I do not remember feeling this way about anyone before. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Yeah, I don t really think that this one is going to have as much of a punch with women generally as the set up implies it will. I think women get it hammered in pretty early in life that men care about looks and that there s only so much you can do about that we don t really have a counternarrative where a genuinely plain girl who continues to be plain through the whole story wins over a desirable guy with her courage or kindness.
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Babe he him some time. He will likely miss you if you play your game right.
You have to act like you don 8767 t care but in a good way.
Now this is the game plan:
Each time he calls you or texts you, act really happy and excited. Do this even when you guys cross paths. But it doesn 8767 t end there, another thing you have to do is to act really busy immediately and promise to call him/text/meet him back once you are through.
All these should happen within 85 seconds. And you leave.
Texting is significant to me because I 8767 m hearing impaired. Every guy I 8767 ve dated understands that I can 8767 t talk on the phone. So texting is my primary mode of communication. Not sure how all this advice helps me, because basically, if he stops texting, he 8767 s stopped communicating/contacting me, period. It doesn 8767 t take much to just text, 8775 Just saying hey, busy for a bit, but talk to you later, 8776 especially when dealing with someone like me.
I also find the implication most women actually have a list of physical specs in their head any potential romantic partner would have to match slightly insulting but more weird?
It might be because I m bi, but I suspect not but generally what gives me tingles is how that person carries themselves rather than actual appearance.
Sure being hot might help but there s nothing like being insecure to completely negate the effect of being attractive.
YMMV, my idea of a catch and other people s is definitely not going to match 😉
Need help I have been married for 69 years. Since January I have had a persistent man want to sleep with me. My marriage is not all it 8767 s cracked up to be and he has a girlfriend. In march I met him at his house nothing happened both of us freaked out he couldn 8767 t believe what he was doing in his house And I told him it was too awkward not right and not worth losing everything. He said he would not lose anything or give it up. I left when I did he told me to be careful. The next day he wanted me to come by. I couldn 8767 t and told him this wasn 8767 t right and asked him why me? He said he had been intrigued by me for a very, very long time. I asked him how since he had an awesome girlfriend he says it was just me my hair, my voice, my eyes how I treat people. After that I didn 8767 t speak to him for a month. Out of he blue he said he was thinking about me and wanted to know if I was doing ok. Then still today he wants to get together for sex even though I have turned him down the part 5 months, I fkn to is why he would persue for so long. I like him a lot but I know it 8767 s not worth it. Am I reading him wrong??! Is there more!???
I don t expect people to be into me because of my confidence. Even if I m relatively comfortable with myself, I understand perfectly well that others might have a different opinion, and that to a average woman I m about as attractive as senior hydrobics. To have any sort of romantic success I have to act against my nature and show at least some traits I despise. Which is at times rather emotinately taxing, but I m not complaining, that s life.
I was using your wording. Anyway, I was arguing against the common claim that confidence will turn anyone into Casanova incarnate regardless of their personality and other factors. In reality grim no-nonsense Clint Eastwood is only cool in the movies, and give some annoying dorky person confidence to be more socially active and he will just annoy people twice the rate he used to. One s self-image is rather meaningless when others are going to base their judgement of him on their own standards. And you said it, they can only know what they can perceive, the way he acts, which might or, given the fluid nature of the human mind, might not represent what he really is. But the whole concept of self is a interesting problem in it s own right.
Since my return home we have spoken and spoke about me going there to meet up for a few days and he was totally happy about the idea and indeed looking forward to it BUT After thinking about it and knowing this could never be long term not just because of the age thing for many reasons, I decided that i should leave it as a great time had by both..a memory to always look back on fondly..Because I have to admit i cannot get this guy out of my mind, I think to go back would be wrong as i would find it harder on my return this time to accept it for what it was..a fun fling with a guy I have to try to be open to looking for someone who I can have a LTR With which i find hard to do usually as I feel I have commitment issues,
I m 5 8 and dance swing and ballroom, frequently in heels. I m naturally taller than most of the guys I dance with before shoes and hair and I get hit in the head on turns /all the time/. I ve had leads automatically duck down because they re used to it from leading the (mostly) shorter follows that doesn t work when the follow is several inches taller and then I get it in the face. To be fair, I ve learned to duck myself which can help.
I also want to address the (wrong) idea that short women are Just the fact that I am only 5 foot makes people think I am as in 75-85 years And at the same time, they also throw out the idea that I might have had an education, or that I might be working at all. It is condescending as hell, people, if you hear the I do not believe that you are older than 76 EVERY time you go out. Or the I do not believe you are the manager, you are too or you are too to be am 95, and I know my life, my age, and what I want.
I recently moved one state over and a guy I used to work with said he always liked me and we 8767 ve been talking a lot. We went on a date and it was awesome. Now he 8767 s talking about coming to see me. When this first started he was texting nonstop and now it 8767 s less but he still checks in, likes my stuff on FB and Instagram and is making plans to visit in a week. So I need to quit overthinking everything and just calm down.